Culturally, we’ve been taught connection is completely random. Or worse, that it is contrived and created in order to secure a specific result. A relationship, a business deal, and even happy, engaged children. It can all be had if you just know the secret sauce. 

Media has changed more in the last three years than in the previous twenty. AI now writes first drafts, summarizes interviews, and increasingly decides what search engines surface at all. Google's own results page has quietly become the destination instead of the doorway, answering questions before anyone clicks through to a website.

Many media opportunities, including online, podcasts or TV, are squandered, not producing the impact you had hoped. Not because the placement was wrong, or the guest was underprepared, but because no one treated the moment as the beginning of something with powerful impact.

If you are looking to create a tribe for your business or with just one person, the strategies to accomplish this universally are very similar. Research shows motivation through guilt and the long standing 'convincing wheel' doesn't work in the long-term.